It's not that bad and, hey, it keeps me busy. All I'm saying is that you can save a lot of headaches by making sure your lame snail-mail isn't even lamer spam mail.
In other, more non-public-service-announcement news, I was spending time on I Blame the Patriarchy again. IBtP is actually one of my very favorite sites on the web, because a lot of really terrific stuff gets said. I could go on and on about where I disagree with the site founders brand of philosophy and where I agree, because there's an awful lot of both, but I generally think Twisty Faster and the whole damn site is excellent and I hope blaming is done for a long time.
But, I'm kind of a geek, and there's plenty of geek-slamming, and I play Vampire (sometimes, but it's been getting more frequent) and that got slammed a few days ago, too. The crux of the matter is, I think there's something to the argument that a vampire is something of a sexual predator. First of all, because you can (and people will) find the sexual metaphor in any kind of text, but also because the predator metaphor is a particularly violent as well as heavily-romantisized one.